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I can’t get my loved one to take a shower. What should I do?
That's such a common challenge. Many people with dementia develop fears around bathing or showering. The experience can feel overwhelming or frightening to them - the rushing water, the temperature changes, and the vulnerability of being undressed…
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"I built TalkToLisa after caring for both of my parents through their dementia journeys. I know what it's like to feel alone and overwhelmed. I wanted to make sure no caregiver has to."
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"TalktoLisa gets it. It's comforting to know that others are dealing with the same challenges I face every day. The advice and support I've found here have been genuinely helpful."
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Leila H.
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"At first I didn't know where to begin. But once I started typing, I am impressed by how quickly and thoughtfully TalkToLisa responded. What started as questions about my mom turned into a real conversation about my brothers and sisters, our different caregiving styles, and the family dynamics we're all navigating.

It gave me a lot to think about.
Like a therapy session that I didn’t know I needed."
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Tracy D.
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“This is excellent! I shared some concerns I have about my loved one living with dementia and the responses and suggestions were fantastic - I've already put them into practice.

Lisa provided great recommendations on how to ensure my loved one feels supported, along with practical tips for navigating challenging conversations. Lisa makes you feel positive and supported throughout the entire experience!”
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Get expert guidance anytime, including weekends, holidays or the middle of the night, when your family and friends are not available.

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Most dementia caregivers carry guilt they don’t deserve
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Impossible Requests & Honesty

Your loved one asking to talk to their long since passed-away mother or father is one of the most challenging moments of dementia care.
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Shower Resistance

Shower Resistance isn’t about “I forget” — It’s about fear
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FAQs

Find answers to your most pressing questions about our membership and services.

Am I chatting with a real person?

TalkToLisa is an automated care advisor, not a live person, trained on real-world dementia caregiving experience. She draws on person-centered care techniques to help you navigate the daily challenges and powerful emotions that come with caring for a loved one.

Try it for free - many caregivers say it feels like having a knowledgeable friend available whenever you need one. If it’s not helpful, nothing to cancel. Just let the trial trial expire.

Is my chat kept private and secure?

Yes, all conversations and care information you share with TalkToLisa are private and encrypted. We follow strict data protection protocols and never share your personal information with third parties.

When you share something with TalkToLisa that describes a care preference of either you or your loved one, or sheds light on the caring context, TalkToLisa makes a note of it in its encrypted database. This enables TalkToLisa to provide you with personalized and relevant support. This care profile information is specific to you and your loved one and is not used as part of anyone else’s TalkToLisa experience.

Our team may periodically review conversations, separately from your account details, to ensure TalkToLisa is providing helpful, high-quality guidance. If you contact us for account support, we may access your full account information to assist you.

Is there a limit to how often I can use the tool?

No, you can interact with TalkToLisa as often as you need, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. There are no usage limits or restrictions as long as you are using TalkToLisa for its designed purpose.

What about medical questions?

TalkToLisa is not a medical service and doesn't replace professional medical advice. She can help you understand medical topics, research what current studies say about treatments, and prepare questions for doctor visits - but she's not a doctor and occasionally makes mistakes.Think of Lisa as a knowledgeable friend who can help you prepare for conversations with healthcare professionals, not replace them.

How do I provide feedback about TalkToLisa?

We welcome and would be grateful for any feedback you have on what you like, what you don’t like and any suggestions you have that would improve our service. You can reach us at: support at talktolisa dot com.

Can I have my personal data deleted?

Yes, login to the site and click the Contact Us link in the nav bar and we will delete your personal  information that TalkToLisa has stored from your conversations.